How Sharing My Secrets Helped Me
The power of Sharing the Secret Side of Yourself. Must read please......
People die everyday on accidents and sicknesses which I consider them as normal death. What if someone dies suicidal? What is my take on it?
Interesting, I don't either insult or judge those who commit suicide. But I think it's lack of sharing that interesting secrets you kept within you for a long time. You know, one thing I always say is this; if you keep a secret, it grows and become an obstacle to you, your interest and your future. How?
If someone raped a girl and the girl decides to keep it within herself after a while, she'll grow a feeling that "men are evil and unworthy" which make them not to trust any man in their life entirely. Therefore, making them to judge men both the good and the bad alike. These kind of mentality keeps the girl unable to marry, trust men including business activities therefore affecting there career and hindering their future and delaying their status.
Assuming the girl had shared it with someone being it a friend or a Councilor, she world have getting a relief from such awful incident.
The same thing for people looking for jobs around the world.
Let me give you a story, I have a friend who is a graduate while I only have SSCE certificate and working as a social media manager for a certain company while friend who has BSc had no job. He searched for white colour jobs for years and lastly got tired of searching for office jobs.
He begun his search for either a gate man or a security guard job. Then he decided to keep it for himself looking for a security guard job for months of which in the company I am working, we needed a gate man. My friend never said something about him looking for a security guard job. I was just saying something about it one day that our company needs a security guard and he asked me why haven't I told him?
He told me that shame could not allow him to tell me that he is looking for a security guard job so he decided to be searching for it secretly. One thing you should know is that he got the security job and later transferred to become our secretary in the company. From 1 to 2 and so is life everywhere.
Why is this story here?
The story is telling you and trying to advise you that; share that your problem you think is shameful to someone, he may help. Do not allow shame to hinder your interests and conflict your desires. Share it with someone else today and get your problem solved or get a relief.
Note:
Is not every friend that deserves to hear your story or secret. Your story is your weapon, it can work for you and work against you. Be wise to share your story before it gets to the hands of a wrong person.
I promise to share mine next time. A real family story. I Know many people will pick hope from my story because, I have never given up and you'll never give up.
Tip: No matter the kind of job you're searching for, do not be afraid of telling a friend to help you find it. No matter the situation you're in, someone else is in a bigger one than yours.
Precautions: Committing suicide does not solve your problem, it only shows how week you are to face life in physical.
The Worst Suicide: The worst Suicide goes to those educated and rich people who kill themselves of a certain challenge they're facing either from an erroneous action they took during their youth age or there leadership actions they took during leading a group of people and they don't want to face the other side of their actions.
Shamefulness: Shamefulness is ignorance to the truths of life and hindrance to exposure and destiny.
#SuicideisFoolishness
#ShamefulnessisIgnorance
People die everyday on accidents and sicknesses which I consider them as normal death. What if someone dies suicidal? What is my take on it?
Interesting, I don't either insult or judge those who commit suicide. But I think it's lack of sharing that interesting secrets you kept within you for a long time. You know, one thing I always say is this; if you keep a secret, it grows and become an obstacle to you, your interest and your future. How?
If someone raped a girl and the girl decides to keep it within herself after a while, she'll grow a feeling that "men are evil and unworthy" which make them not to trust any man in their life entirely. Therefore, making them to judge men both the good and the bad alike. These kind of mentality keeps the girl unable to marry, trust men including business activities therefore affecting there career and hindering their future and delaying their status.
Assuming the girl had shared it with someone being it a friend or a Councilor, she world have getting a relief from such awful incident.
The same thing for people looking for jobs around the world.
Let me give you a story, I have a friend who is a graduate while I only have SSCE certificate and working as a social media manager for a certain company while friend who has BSc had no job. He searched for white colour jobs for years and lastly got tired of searching for office jobs.
He begun his search for either a gate man or a security guard job. Then he decided to keep it for himself looking for a security guard job for months of which in the company I am working, we needed a gate man. My friend never said something about him looking for a security guard job. I was just saying something about it one day that our company needs a security guard and he asked me why haven't I told him?
He told me that shame could not allow him to tell me that he is looking for a security guard job so he decided to be searching for it secretly. One thing you should know is that he got the security job and later transferred to become our secretary in the company. From 1 to 2 and so is life everywhere.
Why is this story here?
The story is telling you and trying to advise you that; share that your problem you think is shameful to someone, he may help. Do not allow shame to hinder your interests and conflict your desires. Share it with someone else today and get your problem solved or get a relief.
Note:
Is not every friend that deserves to hear your story or secret. Your story is your weapon, it can work for you and work against you. Be wise to share your story before it gets to the hands of a wrong person.
I promise to share mine next time. A real family story. I Know many people will pick hope from my story because, I have never given up and you'll never give up.
Tip: No matter the kind of job you're searching for, do not be afraid of telling a friend to help you find it. No matter the situation you're in, someone else is in a bigger one than yours.
Precautions: Committing suicide does not solve your problem, it only shows how week you are to face life in physical.
The Worst Suicide: The worst Suicide goes to those educated and rich people who kill themselves of a certain challenge they're facing either from an erroneous action they took during their youth age or there leadership actions they took during leading a group of people and they don't want to face the other side of their actions.
Shamefulness: Shamefulness is ignorance to the truths of life and hindrance to exposure and destiny.
#SuicideisFoolishness
#ShamefulnessisIgnorance
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